Interviewer: "So, Timmy and Tina, welcome to the Marriage Success Show.
What keeps your 25 year marriage so strong and vibrant?"
Timmy and Tina, married for 25 years, are often asked how they keep their marriage so strong for so long.
Tina always gives this answer:
“I feel that many marriages end because men and women don’t understand what the other gender truly wants in a marriage.
Men and women’s romantic needs are very different.
Many women believe that men want what women want romantically.
This is rarely true. Many men won’t admit what their romantic relationship fantasies are, because women will say they are regressive.
Most romantic relationships are spent with men trying to live up to a wife’s unrealistic romantic expectations.
Men often fail, and that is why we see skyrocketing divorce rates.
Men’s needs are rarely considered at all, let alone on an equal basis.
From the beginning I made sure I provided my husband’s romantic ideal in a wife, and he my romantic ideal in a husband.
So before our marriage we laid it all out honestly.
We agreed on a few things. Mainly to try to give each other what would make us most happy.
Our ideas of the perfect marriage were at the opposite end of the spectrum.
With him being so masculine and me being very feminine, that made sense.
Here is our successful plan.
As a man, he needs to maintain his masculine frame, and to support the family with no excuses or weakness. I am only sexually attracted to a masculine man who can support a wife and family. I need a man who can lead.
As a woman, I need to always be able to fit in my wedding dress comfortably. My husband is only sexually attracted to a woman who looks like one. He needs a woman who can follow.
The following is our schedule. This equally accommodates both of our needs and we both love it.
We have a week on week off system.
Week 1, he is the fantasy of what I want a husband to be romantically.
1 - Sex on demand, whatever type I desire, including foreplay, leading to multiple orgasms for me, when I am in the mood, with no responsibility for his pleasure, unless I offer it.
2 - Flowers and candies
3 - Romantic notes hidden everywhere.
4 - Romantic dinner dates out at fancy restaurants.
5 - Hours long talks into the night.
6 - He watches whatever shows I want.
7 - 1 two week vacation per year where I want.
Week 2, I am the fantasy of what he wants a wife to be romantically.
1 - I am groomed impeccably in every way he desires.
2 - Sex on demand, whatever type he desires, with no responsibility for my pleasure, unless he offers it.
3 - Hours of silence into the night.
4 - I watch whatever shows he wants as long as he wants.
5 - I give him time alone on demand.
6 - 1 two week vacation per year wherever he wants.
7 - Hot breakfast, lunch packed, and dinner ready when he gets home.
That is how we have happily made it to 25 years."
Interviewer: "Thanks so much for your time."
